There's a lot of shows out there that I particularly will not watch, like "More to Love,"  "The Bachelor,"  and "Biggest Loser" etc etc.. Because a lot of times they stereotype how people should look like, and it gets on my nerves all the time when my girl friends will look at me and say "Omg! I wish I had your body," and I would always give them a droll look and ask them "Why?" Most of their answers are always the same, "You've got boobs and a butt! Look at me I've got no curves!" Then I have my girl friends who always push the weight issue all the time, now my friends are the healthy, they exercise, they're active, and heck they barely even eat meat because they are so crazed out on their own weight. Yet, they always complain that they are so fat all the time, when they aren't. Well I was sitting at home with all my girl friends at the time and we sat back to watch a TV series called "How To Look Good Naked" marathon, I pretty much set them up for this show. The reason why I made them all watch the show was because all the women on this show were of different shapes, sizes, and height, whether they were athletically slim or curvy, these women all have the same fears my girl friends have. Show after show my girl friends got more hooked on to it and after we were done, I asked them openly about what they felt. Of course everyone had different opinions on what they felt about the show, but they all agreed that they liked the fact that it wasn't stereotyping any type of women to be a certain size or weight. I've posted about it before that women shouldn't be stereotyped into looking like something they aren't, a lot of media attention is focused on being slim and fabulous, but then others are saying being plus sized is the "real" way to go. When all of that is such bull crap, when I look in the mirror I know some times I feel like I'm ugly when I know I'm not, I've heard people say to me I'm "fat" or "should tone down on boxing" because of my muscles. Ladies and gentlemen the way you perceive yourself will always make you your own worse critic, no one else is a critic to YOUR body, know that whether you be rocking your blue jeans, sweats, sneaks, heels, flannel shirts, white tees, or your messy do. Don't feed upon the trash that the media shows everyday on the ever changing whats beautiful and whats trashy and nasty and whatever. You're beautiful, just like in Maya Angelou's poem:

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them
They think I'm telling lies.
I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Every lady on the street, to the women rocking and singing to their own beat, your the pure name and meaning of beauty. What do you believe?

I always got a lot of crap for being such a "boy" at school because I really hated to put on make-up everyday like all the popular girls did. I really hated wearing tight fighting clothes that would show off my curves because I couldn't really move freely in it, and most of all instead of cheer leading and being in the fashion club, I was the girl in the anime club, martial arts club, and soccer club. Yea a lot of my friends back then were guys who give me loads of bull for being in clubs only meant for men, I mean please soccer, anime, and martial arts aren't only for men, high school immaturity best days of my life (yea right). Anyways the title is actually a joke that my fiancee always tells me, it's a personal joke we share, you see he's a Taekwondo black belt and me I'm a Muay Thai Boxer. We both were friends high school before we started dating, but back in high school I remember all the time when he'd try to literally "sweep" me off my feet and I'd come back and Teh Tud (means roundhouse kick in English) his ass for trying to sweep me. But anyways, a couple days ago I was talking to him on skype, and we started reminiscing about how we were so "loving" to each other in high school.
It was fun to think about those days, but then a question popped up into my head, that I wanted to ask:

Me: "Hey babe, I got a question."
Him: "What is it?"
Me: "What did you think of me when you found out I did Muay Thai? I mean a lot of my guy friends told me I was so unladylike for doing it, what was your feelings towards it?"
Him: "Well I feel a girl needs to protect herself whether it be martial arts or even that lousy pepper spray crap, but I never thought you were unladylike, I found it more attractive that you could probably kick my ass."
Me: "Ahahah you sound like a masochist."
Him: "Bebe when I found out you did Muay Thai, it didn't make me think less of you, in fact I thought more highly of you because you could protect yourself and stand your ground."

So ladies and gentlemen what do you believe, is it ever unladylike for a girl to learn martial arts? Tell me what you think.